The Bare Minimum Requirements
for building a long-term dynamic or relationship with Me
BASIC QUALITIES
Obedient:
do as you’re told, when you’re told, in the timeframe you are told to do it in.
Consistent:
in every aspect of your life and personality, not just within the confines of our dynamic or relationship.
Intuitive:
being submissive does not mean that you never have to think for yourself again, you still have a brain — use it.
Self Aware:
emotional intelligence and maturity are non-negotiable, I am chronically psychologically centred; if you don’t believe in or have never been to therapy we will not get along.
Generous:
what’s yours is mine and that isn’t up for debate or discussion.
Intelligent:
chances are I will have a higher IQ than you, and that’s okay, however I’m incapable of tolerating stupidity and weaponised incompetence.
Selfless:
can you even call yourself submissive if all you ever think about is yourself?
Optimistic/Positive:
negative energy breeds negative energy, and nobody likes to be around someone that complains all the time.
Honest:
I have a strict one strike policy, you lie to me once and you’re out the fucking door.
GENERAL PERSONALITY
I’m only interested in submissives that wake up every morning truly devoted and eager to worship every part of me; my mind, my body, my soul, my personality — everything.
If you only ever want to fulfil your specific worship fetish (i.e.: foot fetishists ignoring everything but my feet, for example) then I have no interest in allowing you to serve, and you should look into professional real time sessions within your budget rather than trying to build a one-sided dynamic with a lifestyle Domme just because you’re broke.
Nobody is in kinkspace all the time, and I am no exception; I don’t want to be in hardcore Domme mode 24/7, therefore I appreciate a submissive that is able to speak to me like I’m a full-blown complex human being rather than some kind of dispenser for their kinky fantasies.
My dominance is natural and you will always be aware of our dynamic and your place, however if I’m not able to be vulnerable and you’re not able to be supportive then why are you even trying to build any kind of relationship at all?
OTHER THINGS TO NOTE
If you’re under 25 then please let’s just not; find somebody age appropriate because you will not be serving Me.
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I have absolutely ZERO interest in associating with people that have kids.
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I don't like/tend to take on Switches as long-term subs.
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Financial Domination and/or Money Fetishism is a part of all My relationships and dynamics with men no matter their kink orientation.​
If you have an issue with FinDom, FinDommes, or Professionals, we won't get along.
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I would really prefer that you're comfortable being in content (with a mask, nobody wants to see your face), but this isn't a necessity.
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I do not associate with people that identify as a sissy, CD/TV, or those interested in feminisation; additionally those who identify as snow bunnies or queens of spades should also refrain from contacting Me.
